Why Stress when you don't need to??

So, one of my Fabulous Aunts, had a great analogy and I'm going to share the knowledge. I started to stress about bills, as I'm sure everyone does, I would hate finding out details of how much or what it would take to clear the damage. But it was soon explained to me that bills(or whatever the issue you are stressing over is) is just like poo, If you let it build it will become very stinky and you will ultimately become a stinky person. However, If you know exactly how much poo there is, and what it will take to clean it up, then you can very easily choose that stress is just a bad waste of energy. Most, of the time our reactions are built upon emotions, which is completely fine and normal, just make sure you take the time to realize, that (again) IT COULD ALWAYS BE WORSE, YOU CAN DECIDE HOW YOU WANT TO HANDLE THE SITUATION, and YOU CREATE IT ALL. Once those three things are taken into consideration then you realize "oh, its really not so bad" what was the big deal?? NOTHING. Please people, this world would be such a more peaceful environment If everyone could realize, THERE IS NO POINT IN STRESSING OVER THINGS WE CAN'T CONTROL, and for the things we can control, THATS JUST IT WE CAN CONTROL THEM! SO why become the stinky person in the room, when you can decide not to. You can do anything and everything you set your mind to, just decide to do it. And, MAKE IT HAPPEN. Stress will not only derail you from your initial goal, but it could also break you down. Stress is a waste of energy, it also takes away from you making yourself happy. Everyone has issues and everyone is normally going to stress, but just keep in mind that you don't have to. That life is that much sweeter without stress weighing you down. I am 23, yes I'm young, but have already so much life experience, and can promise you the times that I would stress did way more harm then good, now that my mind set has changed (because I DECIDED to) there's just no point in stress, AGAIN -- GOD WOULD NOT GIVE YOU ANYTHING YOU CAN'T HANDLE, SO IF GOD HAS FAITH IN YOU MAYBE IT'S TIME YOU DO TO, (if not at least have faith in God ) Everyone deserves to be happy, and everyone has the opportunity to, we just need to open up our eyes and take the opportunity when it presents itself.
"EVERY MOMENT YOU ARE HAPPY IS A GIFT TO THE REST OF THE WORLD" Harry Palmer